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5 Ways To Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn’t Love You Back

Kevin David

Kevin David

It hurts. Trust me, I know! But when you find yourself in such a fix, you can't settle there forever. You have to pick yourself up and move on. You should know this isn't your fault. If they don't see the awesome person in front of them with so much love to give, why wallow in self-pity? Here are expert tips on how to deal with the situation and move on!

1. Accept the fact that this person doesn't need you

Coming to terms with this reality better places you in a position where you can deal with your self-worth. Many times, we find ourselves in tough moments because we are not ready to accept the truth.

2. Look for friends who have gone through similar situations before

It helps when you have a friend who has been there to help you navigate this murky water of unreturned love.

3. Treat yourself

You deserve better. Take care of yourself, take care of your skin. Enjoy. Remember that the first step to feeling good is looking good.

4. Stop hanging on to the dream

I know it's easier said than done but attributing something disgusting to the person might help turn you off.

5. Don't get angry

Try to understand his preference. Maybe you just aren't his type, which is okay.