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5 Easy Ways To Deal With Step-Children 

Titilayo Ilori

Dealing with stepchildren is no mean feat. While some will appreciate the little you do for them, others wouldn’t. It is important, therefore, to learn how to deal with them. Find some easy ways to do just that below.

1. Be truthful

Don't pretend. If your step-children get to know you are a fake person, you will ruin everything. Nothing you say is relevant to them. Make a promise you can fulfill. Don't say one thing and do the opposite.

Don’t be that stepmother who only acts nice to her step-children in front of her husband. No stepchild will like a chameleon as a stepmother. Let them know you for who you are.

2.  Carry them along

It is best to carry your step-children along in all you do. Let them know what is happening in the house. This would help them realise that you are not a problem and they won't see you as a stumbling block.

3. Meet your step-children’s needs

It might be difficult when it comes to satisfying your step-children, but it is worth trying. Don't act like you are doing the child a favour. Do it willingly and wholeheartedly as if you are doing it for your own child. It makes them feel loved.

4. Communicate

Sit with your stepchildren and have conversations with them. Ask genuine questions about school, relationships, and so on. Although it might take a while before you get to the stage where the child can open up to you totally, it is important that you keep trying.

5. Celebrate their special days

Celebrate special days, like birthdays, with your step-children and have their friends join in the fun of celebrating these moments with them.