Thinking of paying Bae’s school fees? Pay attention!
They are instances where a boyfriend may sponsor a girlfriend's education, then she messes up after graduation.
Either she cheats on him with someone else or she ‘upgrades’ to someone she perceives as better, leaving her boyfriend heartbroken.
Men who don't have the fortitude to bear the reality of losing the girl they sponsor, may kill or maim her. Thus it is important to have these three things in mind before deciding to sponsor her education.
1. Have it in mind that you are doing it for a stranger
To be safe, have it at the back of your mind that you are helping a total stranger, that way if she is less appreciative and doesn't marry you, it is easy to bounce back. Also accept that sponsoring her education is a game of chance and you are sedlflessly helping her achieve her dreams.
2. Always remember, you don’t own her
If you decide to sponsor her through school, always remind yourself that you do not own her. The more you think about how much you are spending on her, the more tempted it will be to think you own her.
Remember she is an adult and entitled to her decision.
3. Don't do it because of the reward
If you decide to sponsor her education, accept that you are a philanthropist and take your mind away from getting rewarded. Thus if she disappoints you, you will not be tempted to hurt her.