5 Signs You Are Not Ready To Have Children

You are not quite ready to have children if you are guilty of these five things.

Titilayo Ilori

Having children is the joy of every couple. Children have a way of keeping the family together. But the decision to have children falls on both partners. They must agree to it and make plans for the smooth arrival of a child.

If you are guilty of these five things, you are not ready to start making babies.

1. You are not saving money

Not saving enough money for the arrival of your child/children is dangerous. You must learn to curb your spending habits to be able to save enough for the little ones. If you don't learn before they arrive, it might be difficult to adjust to change when they arrive.

2. You don’t want to ask for help

If you are the type that cannot ask people for help, you are not ready to have children. It’s time to start learning now because you will be needing all the help you can get once the little ones start arriving.

3. You and your partner keep having issues

If both of you continue to have unresolved issues now, the chances of those issues disappearing when you have kids are slim to none. So, you both should decide on what exactly you  want.

4. You can't stand noise

There will be lots of shouting, screaming and crying once you start having children and you have to be tolerant of them if you want to have children. If you can't, then you are not ready to have kids

5. You’re easily irritated

Once you start having children, cleaning up messy diapers and all becomes inevitable. If you are not ready for this, you need a little more time to start having children.

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