Scared of running into your ex? These six things will help you remain calm if you find yourself bumping into your ex.
Running into your ex can be difficult. You might end up saying something you shouldn’t say or reacting in a way you shouldn’t. Here are a few things you should do when you run into your ex.
1. Compose yourself
You must compose yourself. If you show your ex you are excited to see him, he will think you have been longing to see him. It might be difficult for you to compose yourself at first, but you can do it
2. Act mature
Bumping into your ex at the mall or at the cinema or anywhere else can make you confused, but no matter how nasty the breakup was, try as much as possible to act mature.
3. Try not to show any affection
Breakups can be nasty, so seeing your ex can dig out old memories. Try as much as possible not to show your ex how you feel, even if you’re still in love with them.
4. Be happy and lively
Acting sad in the presence of your ex will make him think you have missed him. Act happy and show that you have moved on, even if you haven't.
5. Stay focused
If you’re having a conversation with your ex, try as much as possible to go straight to the point. Don't ask unnecessary questions that might send a wrong signal.
6. Avoid talking about the past
Talking about the past will make your ex feel you are still in love. If your ex tries to bring up issues about the past, make them know that you have moved on with your life.