In a relationship, it is normal for your partner to reveal some traits you can’t tolerate, but you hope you can change them with time. The truth is that there are some traits that can never be changed no matter what. These traits include:
1. Being emotionally unavailable
Some people don't care about their partner's feelings, which is extremely wrong. This can break the bond you both share.
You should be able to tackle any problem before it takes a toll on your relationship. If your partner is not always there whenever you need him, marriage won't change him.
2. Acting like they are never in the wrong
This is common among people who are arrogant. Such a person believes they are always right and never wrong. People with this attitude are always hard to change. So it is left to you to decide if you can live with such a person.
A partner who lies is never going to change before or after marriage. You will certainly have trust issues in the relationship once in a while, even when your partner is telling the truth you will still doubt them.
If your partner is a flirt and you believe such person will change when you are both married, then you are deceiving yourself.
5. Constantly seeking attention
Some partners are just fond of seeking attention. A partner who is an attention seeker will never allow you have some breathing space. Such a person will want you to be around them all day.
6. Bad temper
Always remember that there are some traits that can never change. If your partner abuses you emotionally or physically, the chances of changing that person are slim to none.