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4 Mistakes You Shouldn’t Make When Your Boyfriend Stops Loving You

Titilayo Ilori

Heartbreak is terrible and not every woman is strong enough to handle it, especially after investing so much effort and dedication in the relationship.

You might begin to notice some strange attitudes in your partner, and before you know what is happening, he starts to ask for space and gradually you notice he has stopped loving you.

Most women feel helpless when they are not loved. Here are four things you should not do when he stops loving you.

1.  Begging him

You shouldn't beg for his love. If your boyfriend has stopped loving you, it is best to accept things the way they are. If you force yourself on him, this will hurt you more because he will take you for granted. There are better men out there, so move on.

2. Crying in front of him

It is normal to cry, but what you shouldn't do is cry in the presence of your boyfriend. Don't let him see traces of your tears because he might just think he is irreplaceable.

3. Reporting him to a third party

It is not everyone that is happy with your relationship. Some of the people you call your friends will be happy about your breakup. They might say all sorts of things behind you and say something else when they see you.

It is best to keep the details of what happened to yourself. And if you feel the need to talk to someone, let it be someone you trust.

4. Verbally abusing him

Some women become violent after a breakup. While some are emotional, others are strong. Some women can go to the extent of verbally abusing their ex on social media, to people, and so on. If you do this you are making him feel like a champion.

5. Resorting to violence

It takes a strong woman who can control her emotions not to hit a man who broke her heart after so much dedication. Nevertheless, you should control yourself and never react violently.