Are you turning 30 soon as a lady? It is not a bad idea to learn some or all of these.
As a lady, your twenties can be a roller coaster ride with so many mistakes made and lessons learnt. As you grow older, there are some things you should have learnt, mastered and understood about life before hitting the big 30.
Whether you agree or not, there should be a level of maturity, confidence and self-awareness that you should portray by the time you get to that age because of experiences you have had in your 20s.
1. How to show kindness to rude people
This is necessary for your peace of mind in general. In this day and age of unchecked social media trolling.
2. How to live alone
This is important for you to learn independence and get to know yourself better.
3. How to know who you can trust and who you can't
You need to filter your circle and know who is on your side and who is an obvious hater or enemy.
4. How to surround yourself with people and things that make you happy
Happiness is free and it is a personal choice. You should never compromise your happiness for anything or anyone.
5. How to help other people
Learn how to reach out to anyone around you who needs help and do the best you can within your power. You will be happier for it.
6. How to determine who to confide in
You need to know who to trust with your secrets and sensitive information. If you have no one, you are better off keeping it all to yourself.
7. How to say no politely
You need to understand the power of saying “NO" sometimes. It is important for your sanity, respect and peace of mind.
8. How to drive
You need to learn this important skill so you can transport yourself to and fro whenever you get a car of your own.
9. How to cook
Cooking is a skill that everyone whether man or woman should acquire. You don't have to be perfect. Just know the basics.
10. How to manage your time
Time management is a vital life skill to live a successful life.
11. How to handle a baby
Those tiny mini-mes will eventually pop out of you some day or you may want to adopt, so it will be helpful to have firsthand information on how to manage them when they come.
12. How to dress neatly
Yes! dressing to suit your body shape; dressing for success. Your personal grooming is key.
13. How to handle yourself in an emergency
Basic first aid measures and emergency tips should be at the tip of your fingers.
14. When to quit
You have to know when to walk away from something or someone that no longer has anything positive to offer or is not giving you room to grow.
15. How to have a healthy relationship with the opposite sex
This is the most important of them all. Get over your emotional baggage from the past, give yourself room to heal and build healthier and more fulfilling relationships.