Maybe you are tired because of a hectic workday, or running after your kids, or maybe you have just been with your partners for way too long and have lost some of the thrill and excitement you shared when your relationship was new.
Just like with work, exercising, studying or even what you eat, sex can become a routine and sometimes boring. When this happens, you and your partner might begin to look elsewhere for excitement.
If you want to avoid this or perhaps, this is your story, here are 5 tips to help spice up your sex life:
1. Consider A Change Of Scenery
We get it, your bed is comfortable but please get out of bed! A change of location or scenery is one of the easiest ways to spice up your sex life.
You have so many rooms in the house, including the shower. Also, nothing stops you from taking your partner to a luxury hotel for a night.
However be mindful of people, a change of scenery does not mean you should be indecent in public.
2. Change Your Style
Change is the only constant thing in life. Trying a new position every now and then will help you discover what your partner really likes as well as what you like.
There are several books and even videos to get you started if you have no idea. Plus the thought of learning new styles with your partner could also be a huge turn on and even better foreplay.
3. Sexy Massages
Speaking of foreplays, massages are a good way to spice up your sex life.
Massages can be both relaxing and sexy especially if you use the right light, scented massage oil and sometimes, the right music.
You could take turns massaging one another or watch each other as you massage yourselves.
4. Explore Your Fantasies
Everyone has sexual fantasies. Everyone! Yes, that means you. The problem for most is that they believe their fantasies are weird or a bit crazy and may not want to share their fantasies due to fear of potential embarrassment or losing their partner.
Fact is, your partner may be thinking the same thing! Have a discussion with your partner about fantasies and the limits you are willing to push yourself, select the one you both like with an open mind and you never can tell, you might just have a new favourite fantasy or should I say reality.
4. Try Dressing Up
Dressing up helps build anticipation. When I say “Dressing Up,” I do not necessarily mean dressing up in costume or wearing a stripper’s outfit.
I mean wearing something provocative. Something that will make your partner look twice. Something that reminds them of why they like you so much.
Could it mean wearing something tight-fitting or shorter than you would normally do? Yes.
Talk about it.
Communication is the life of any relationship, talk about how you feel, whether you are satisfied sexually, what you really like or hate about your sex routine. Tell him how to love you.