The concept of a woman having a life of her own, a career, dreams and aspirations that do not have anything to do with marriage or marrying; is a somewhat alien concept here. I mean it is subconsciously installed in our brains.
You have to lose your singular identity to either get married or stay married. Sigh!
As if when God created us, he didn’t give us a unique purpose of our own. Those problems that only we as individuals have the solutions to.
Oh wait, I forget. We were created to be helpmeets for the man!
Okay o, happy helping.
– Elizabeth Usen