3 Effective Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone
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3 Effective Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone

Abiodun Adeoye

For most young guys out there, being in the friend zone of a lady you like can be a sad experience. Saddening as it may be, it is possible to avoid this by following some of the tips below.

1. Tease her

When you're dealing with women, start teasing them. Teasing is just a fun, playful thing you do with your friends or with people you're comfortable with. You make fun of them, you joke around with them. It is nothing serious. It is coming from a place of love, which says I like you and that's the reason I'm messing around with you.

When guys talk to beautiful girls, they become too serious. They stop joking around, they stop smiling, they stop teasing. Always tease women you're attracted to, just as long it is coming from a place of love and as long as you do it with a cheeky smile on your face. As long as there's a twinkle in your eye and the sub-communications should say you like them and you're having fun with them.

2. Challenge her

When you're dealing with women, start to develop an attitude that is challenging. Start challenging women. When they talk to women, a lot of guys agree with what she says and never challenge her.

She might say I like shopping and the man says, "Yeah me too!"

She might say she likes Chinese food and the man says, "Yeah me too!"

She might say she likes killing dogs and cats and the man says, "Yeah me too!"

Men do this when they are trying to get something. This behaviour is transparent to the girl. She knows you don't agree with what she's saying. You're just saying it because you want to get laid.

Challenging is a way to express your opinion. Don't be afraid to express your opinion when you're talking to women. If she says she likes blue, say you like red. If she says she likes Chinese food, say you like Indian food (or whatever it is that you like).

Be comfortable expressing your opinion. Women appreciate this. It shows you're honest, genuine and authentic and they trust you. They trust you to be yourself!

3. Give her sexual compliments

Once you're teasing women and you're challenging them, start giving women sexual compliments.

If there is a girl you know or you just approached a girl on the street or in a bar, you have to let your intentions be known. Be honest and upfront in terms of how you feel about her.

If you think she's attractive, let her know. If you think she's sexy, let her know. If you think she's girlfriend material, let her know. If you think she turns you on, let her know!

Just start expressing how you feel in terms of your desires and your sexual needs to the girl. Don't worry. Girls don't get offended. A beautiful girl knows she's beautiful so she wants people to be honest and upfront with her. The worst thing you can do is pretend you're not interested and try to manipulate your way in and get through the back door. You might as well just be upfront and honest from the beginning and say, "Listen, I find you attractive you're sexy you have got awesome legs longs. I love your figure."

Whatever it is at that moment, let her know! You'll find that at first she'll be shocked but it's a good kind of shocked and they really like it. They appreciate it.

Remember, guys, being in the friend zone isn't exactly where you would like to find yourself, especially when you have feelings for the girl. Following the tips above would help ensure that she sees you as more than a friend and as someone she would like to have a relationship with.

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