3  Ways To Get Him To Fall For You

3 Ways To Get Him To Fall For You

Abiodun Adeoye

So you have seen this guy you like so much, and over time, you have discovered that both of you have so much in common which makes you crush on him more. But the problem is, he is not making advances towards you.

Perhaps you would like him to see you as more than just a friend and probably start a relationship with you.

There are ways to get him to fall helplessly in love with you.

Men are not as simple as some ladies would think. Some men are complex and getting him to pop the question could be a difficult task.

Below are some tips on how to make him fall in love with you:

1. Be Yourself And Let Him Be Himself Around You

There's nothing more liberating than being in a relationship where you can both let your guards down.

Pretending to be someone you're not just to please your partner is a recipe for disaster. He will even resent you for it once he finds out you've been faking it all along.

Tricking someone into falling for you by trying to be that person he wants to be with will cause nothing but heartbreak in the end.

Before you expect someone to fall in love with you, you must first learn how to love yourself. Be proud of your good qualities and accept your flaws. Nobody is perfect and you don't have a reason to be one.

Don't overthink every move you are going to take. Act natural and don't get scared that he won't accept you for who you are. He doesn't deserve to be with you if he doesn't love the real "You".

You have to do the same for him, love him for who he is and not for who you envision him to be. Men fall in love with women who they can act goofy with. Just let your guard down, be playful and have fun

2. Make Him Excited

If you want to get him to fall for you fast, you can engage him on some adrenaline-pumping activities. Want something simple for a start? Take him on a roller coaster ride.

It sounds unappealing but did you know that adrenaline is sometimes misattributed to arousal? Excitement can help spawn a certain level of attractiveness which means that people who experience the same level of excitement have the tendency to find each other more attractive.

Unless you know that the guy is the adventurous type, don't ask him to go bungee jumping with you. Adrenaline-pumping activities do not always equate to thrill-seeking adventures that will make a grown man wet his pants.

Find a common interest that can make you both excited. Even as simple as watching a horror film together or playing Twister can sometimes do wonders to your relationship.

3. Find Your Own Happiness

When you don't rely on other people to make you happy, it makes you more attractive.

Men love being with a woman who has sunny dispositions towards life. Who wants to be with a grumpy woman who has done nothing but to pick on other people and complain about her job?

Instead of spending all your time and energy in luring a man, why not engage in activities you are passionate about? When you do something that turns you on (baking, house decorating, dancing, playing tennis, etc.), that is a turn-on for the people around you too.

Even though it might appear that you are being desperate, or trying to hard to get him to see you as more than a friend, it would not hurt to try especially when you know that you have a strong feeling for him and would not want to see him end up with someone else other than you.

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