Cheating is the worst and the cruelest thing your woman can ever do to you. Especially, when you have trusted her enough on this.
There is a myth that women don’t cheat, but it is false. Yes, women are just as guilty of cheating, but unlike their male counterparts. They are so good at maintaining a double-life that often times, it's almost impossible to tell an adulterous wife and a faithful one apart.
However, the fact is, not everyone cheats in a relationship. Sometimes, the doubts in your mind are completely baseless and have nothing to do with the reality.
If you are keen enough, you will always be in a position to pick up the key signs that your girlfriend or wife is cheating on you.
Here in this article, we explore the most common signs that can help you tell whether your woman is cheating on you:
1. She Starts Accusing You Of Cheating
Unless she's a total psychopath with absolutely no remorse for cheating on you, odds are she feels slightly guilty about sleeping with other men. And as a defense mechanism, she's going to project it on you, because that way, it puts you on the defense, and creates a false illusion that she actually values fidelity.
2. She Keeps Her Phone Away From Your Hands
Yes, of course, you shouldn’t use her phone without permission. However, if she is taking extra care of her phone, something is going wrong in your love relationship.
By the word “extra care,” we mean; password protecting apps, or not leaving her phone on the table and few more actions. If she started doing this recently, just ask her what’s the reason behind it.
3. She Stops Caring
Women are wired to care about the smallest details about their men and relationships. She cares how many times you call and whether you make time for her. She gets angry with you when you forget those important dates in your relationship and will make a big fuss about it.
So when your lady stops caring that you didn’t call and when she doesn’t throw a fist that you forgot all your special dates, then you have cause to worry.
4. No Interest Intimacy
In a relationship, the couple builds on intimacy by having sex. If there is no more interest or urge to have sex with you, it is obvious there are chances of unfaithfulness.
These are signs that she has already engaged in sex with her new found love.
5. She’s Become Obsessed With Her Privacy
So, you don’t know what’s keeping her so busy and you don’t know why she’s distracted, and now that you are looking more closely into it, she’s accusing you of getting too nosy.
All of the sudden, everything is her personal business, and all of it is off limits to you. Everything is a secret, and you have no right to know anything.
The best defense, as the saying goes, is a good offense. If she’s hiding something, the easiest thing to do is to start snapping that you are just being jealous and she needs space.
6. She Forgets What Stories She's Told You
If she's juggling more than one dude, she's definitely going to get her stories mixed up at some point.
If your partner frequently starts stories with, "Did I tell you this already?" it could mean they're having trouble keeping track of multiple confidants.
7. She’s Spending a Lot of Time at Work
One of the strongest signs of cheating is when your woman starts falling in love with her work more.
During the good old days, your woman just couldn’t wait to come home and cuddle into a bundle with you as you two watched an episode of Game of Thrones.
Then all of a sudden, she now seems more interested in boring data entry at the office than ever and keeps coming home late, usually glowing and with a funny walking style.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but she might be a cheat as being a workaholic out of the blue is often a strong sign of infidelity.
She could be spending time with a male co-worker instead of you. If this happens in your relationship, maybe it is high time that you start considering the possibility that she is a cheat and start counting your losses.
8. She Calls You By Another Name
Everyone has a Freudian slip every now and again, but this is one you'll want to pay close attention to. If your woman keeps accidentally calling you another name in bed, it could mean that she's either wishing you were someone else or is sleeping with someone else on the side.
These signs are a clear indication that your woman is cheating on you, or intends to do so.
If there is no cheating, the same signs may be a suggestion that the relationship is not where it should be, but don’t get paranoid unless there is a combination of the above signs that make you feel like something is wrong.